Freedompreneurship and your signature masterclass are vehicles for tremendous time, creative, financial and geographical freedom and fulfillment. So why don't you have all of the above yet?
Likely, you've done all the right things... but... in the wrong order. We all fall into traps, by accident or by conditioning. It's not your fault, but it your choice to crawl out of them or not.
Re-sequencing and Discernments
Play the audio recording and follow the visual aids below ⤵︎
Trap 1 • PATRIARCHY
Trap 2 • PERFECTIONISM
Re-Sequencing 1 • AWAKENING
Re-Sequencing 2 • GRACE
Hear me loud and clear: it's not your fault that you didn't know what you didn't know. There are 101 types of conditioning that lead you to do the right things... but in the wrong order. Self-blame helps no one.
Take comfort that there are freedom seekers who have walked (or sometimes crawled) ahead of you, so you can learn from their re-sequencing.
the Power of Sequencing
If you're an overachiever, founder, or go-getter, the compulsion to skip steps is stroooooong!!! You wanted all of it done not yesterday, but 9 years ago!!!
It's painful to have to redo some steps, but this time in the right order. You may even feel grief over sunk costs of time, money and energy, or despair over the fear of ending up at the same place if you invest again.
Even so, sequencing is necessary. Imagine if your DNA was out of sequence! 😱
My greatest wish is that you:
- STOP listening to the masochistic drill sergeant voice in your head. It's Patriarchy talking.
- STOP swimming upstream. You are NOT a salmon!
- STOP punishing yourself for what you couldn't have known.
Live fierce and free,
If given one match, a lantern, and a map, would you use the match to light the lantern to see the map... or use the match to burn the map and fumble in the dark?
(First Published May 1, 2019)
Fan the flames
Spread the freedom
What did you feel or take away? Every comment frees genius and spreads freedom.
"Fear not the flames. You are the fire."
May these reclamation stories and liberation tools inspire and guide you to navigate time, identity and creativity, gracefully and joyfully. xo, Ellany
To renew or sustain an identity or creative pursuit,
start with Freedom Fundamentals. ⤵︎