By Ellany Lea • SEP 08, 2019 • 2 Min Read

 

The Mistake Child • Wounded Child Archetypes

 

 

 



 A wounded child archetype is a set of traits and behaviours acquired in childhood from parental or cultural conditioning that falsely defined who you truly are.

False Identities to Release


 🗝I am bad

 🗝I am wrong

 🗝I am a mistake


SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?


 🌀Extremely high expectations of self/others to be good, perfect, altruistic at all times.

 🌀 Vacillate between extreme perfectionism and extreme rebellion/non-conformity.

 🌀 Take on others’ poor behavior as my own fault, enabling them to avoid personal responsibility and accountability.

 🌀 Act as heroic martyr who fixes problems (real or imaginary) in order to feel good about self and establish self-worth.

  🌀Suffer from all or nothing thinking, with little room for infractions by self / others.

  🌀Prone to comparing worst of self to best of others, thus reducing own worth.

  🌀Vacillate between victim “everything is my fault” and blame “everything is your fault”.


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Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in these archetypes, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

 🌹Work smarter, not harder. Choose depth over speed. Pull back to launch forward.

 🌹Give self permission / time / space to dream big again from the depths of childhood innocence.

 🌹Only enter relationships that feel mutually supportive of each other’s fulfillment and success.

... and more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook!

Wounded CHild Archetypes Assessment

 

Identify your top 3 wounded child archetypes and download the full guidebook, so you can reclaim your sovereignty and alchemize wounds into gifts of genius.

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