By Ellany Lea • SEP 07, 2019 • 2 Min Read

 

The Disposable Child • Wounded Child Archetypes

 

 

 



 A wounded child archetype is a set of traits and behaviours acquired in childhood from parental or cultural conditioning that falsely defined who you truly are.

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am worthless

🗝 I have no value

🗝 I am disposable


SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Give away my resources (time, energy, money, body, services, etc.) for free or for very little, as if they were disposable.

🌀  Chronically borrow against my own security and well being, thus perpetually feeling depleted, indebted and/or in survival mode.

🌀  Overstay miserable relationships and/or flee at the first sign of conflict.

🌀  Unable to receive, thus compulsively reciprocate any acts of kindness with an act of owing others back.

🌀  Chronically wait for the other shoe to drop.

🌀  Lack a healthy sense of entitlement in getting my needs / desires met.

🌀  Often beat self up, unsure how to nurture and meet my own needs / desires.


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Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in these archetypes, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Explore activities / people that bring me joy / pleasure and make them a necessity and priority.

🌹 See and own the value of my unique gifts and express them in life enhancing ways.

🌹 Cultivate conflict resolution skills to better navigate relationships.

... and more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook!

Wounded CHild Archetypes Assessment

 

Identify your top 3 wounded child archetypes and download the full guidebook, so you can reclaim your sovereignty and alchemize wounds into gifts of genius.

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