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Parts Integration • Know your Whole Self. Harmony is Freedom.

At War with Yourself?

Have you ever felt torn: a part wants this... another part wants that... but this part fears X... and that other part must have Y? Watch ⤵︎


Credit • Disney

Sound familiar? Recognize yourself? 😜 Then you too are human ✅. Not broken, not crazy, just human, like the rest of us.


In Harmony with Yourself?

Now imagine being the rhythmic harmony (aka attunement, spiritual alignment, or synchrodestiny) of these metronomes (watch until the end). ⤵︎


Credit • irmins


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Grief Autopsy • Name the Losses of Ambiguous Grief

You cannot find what you don’t know you lost. Was it even a loss if you never had it in the first place, such as worth, belonging, or childhood? A Grief Autopsy dissects ambiguous grief hands on. If you don't let your past die, it won't let you live.

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4 Types of Knowing • Reclaim a Full Set of Knowing

This is bad for us, yet we keep doing it. This is good for us, yet we don't do it. Why? Because mind-knowing (conceptual) is not enough. We need a full set of: heart-knowing (emotional), body-knowing (experiential) and soul-knowing (universal) to create and sustain change.

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The Overachiever's Hierarchy of Needs

Today, I'm writing to you from Odessa, Ukraine. Totally did not plan on being here. The only thing I knew about Ukraine is that the Ukrainian figure skater Oksana Baiul who won the gold medal in 1994. And the only thing I knew about Odessa is that it's by the sea. I love the sea <3

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Post-it Wall of Greatness

Have you ever faced the uncomfortable "Now what?!?" after you've achieved a milestone? You thought you'd be ecstatic, but instead are fogged in doubt and uncertainty of "Is this all there is?" Then it's time to make a Post-it Wall of Greatness!

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The Invisible Child • How I Discovered that I Do Matter

Who knew that "failing" at a ropes course would lead to my hyperachiever saboteur's RIP funeral. And the moment my feet touched the ground, a lightning bolt of truth shot through the back of my head, neck and shoulder blades, “How have I never mattered before? How is this the first time?”

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How School Kills Creativity • My First Short Story

I was watching a TED Talk on Why Schools Kill Creativity. A couple of days later, I met up with a high school friend for brunch. We reminisced and somehow ended up on the topic of floss. She exclaimed, "Oh my god, do you remember your floss story, the one you wrote in high school?" My first reaction was of trembling...

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