By Ellany Lea • SEP 05, 2019 • 2 Min Read

 

The Abandoned Child • Wounded Child Archetypes

 

 

 



 A wounded child archetype is a set of traits and behaviours acquired in childhood from parental or cultural conditioning that falsely defined who you truly are.

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am alone

🗝 I am not wanted

🗝 I am abandoned


SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Design my entire life inside chronic self-sufficiency and/or addictions (eg. workaholism), thus further isolating myself.

🌀  Contort self to be what others want, so to be loved, accepted and/or validated.

🌀  Overstay relationships that I’ve long outgrown because I can’t bear ending up alone and/or abandoning others.

🌀  Often feel left out or left behind personally and/or professionally (eg. last one picked for dodge ball, first one laid off from team).

🌀  Lingering sense of discontentment with where I am in life and what I have.

🌀  Avoid joining communities, so to abandon others before they can abandon me.

🌀  Leave relationships during conflict rather than stay to resolve misunderstanding and deepen intimacy.


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Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in these archetypes, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Practice embodying gratitude by deeply seeing / appreciating everything that I already have.

🌹 Maturate my capacity for reading the room and understanding the subtleties of social cues.

🌹 Stay and work through challenges without severing connections or stunting my own growth.

... and more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook!

Wounded CHild Archetypes Assessment

 

Identify your top 3 wounded child archetypes and download the full guidebook, so you can reclaim your sovereignty and alchemize wounds into gifts of genius.

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